October 3rd, 2008 by AllStudentRentals.com
Every year tens of thousands of bright-faced college freshmen leave the friendly confines of their parents’ homes and head off to college, with dreams of drunken hook-ups, sleepless nights before tests, and “independence” dancing in their heads. For many, the first year of college is a well structured and supportive environment, facilitated primarily by life in a dorm. You have everything you need, they tell you when to eat, where to shower, and what the rules are. It’s kind of like prison, only with slightly less rape, and thousands of empty liquor bottles that first-year students save as a testament to indecency (yes it is incredibly lame, but we all did it because it makes you feel grown up and defiant). The dorm is perfect place to make a quasi transition from life at home to life on your own. However, this perfect microcosm of college experience only lasts a year (unless you are one of those bewildering people that chooses to stay in the dorms 2, 3, even 4 years, effectively avoiding any actual responsibility for as long as possible). Once this year is over, it is time to make an important decision: where will you go now?
Let’s assume that there are four basic options when choosing a residence outside of the cinderblock bomb shelters that serve as most dorms:
1. A House
2. An Apartment
3. A Condo
4. Your parents’ house
While this may not indeed by every single option available, these are the four major players in the off-campus housing game, so let’s start at the top.
A House
There is no denying the fact that having a house near campus is one of the more exciting things about college. It is a symbol of independence, a place for you to be whatever you would like to be, and ostensibly, to do whatever you would like to do. It can become a social nexus that is comprised of your very own style and influence, a meeting place for your friends and neighbors and probably some hot chicks too. You are free to engage in whatever behavior you find fitting, and there is no one there to tell you that you can’t take bongloads in the living room. It is the ultimate sense of freedom that you can experience without actually having to worry about much more than your security deposit. Houses have the immediate advantage over the other options just based on a few simple things: there is no resident manager on site, nobody lives directly above/below/left/or right of you, you don’t have to see your parents every day and sleep in the same room that you have for the last 2 decades, etc., etc..
Unfortunately, living in a house is not all rave parties and Kraft Macaroni and Cheese. Houses, more often than not, are slightly to considerably more expensive than apartments, and certainly moreso than living at home. This extra cost is reflected in the higher rents usually attached to houses, larger security deposits, and small things as well. If your house has a yard, there is a good chance that you will be responsible for maintaining it, and if you don’t, landlords are not shy about hiring professional help and sending you the bill. Also, some houses don’t offer garbage and water services at no cost, another thing you must consider, especially if you have roommates that are terrible at paying bills (we once had garbage stacked up 6 feet high in our garage because of some unnecessary miscommunication with the waste management company). Living in a house also means potentially giving up some things that would generally be common in an apartment complex. Your house won’t have a pool or a fitness center, and you will be lucky to get a washer and dryer or a dishwasher. Central heating and air conditioning is not uncommon, but it depends largely on how old the house is and whether or not the landlord considers it a valuable investment, so don’t expect it.
Despite these minor setbacks, having a house is still pretty kick ass, and certainly something you won’t regret, assuming of course that you have cool roommates, but that is an entirely different issue and one that won’t be covered here.
An Apartment
An apartment is certainly a viable option for any young student. Apartments are plentiful in most college towns and can be had in a variety of different price ranges depending on what you need. Generally they are cheaper than houses, and available ones are much easier to find since the demand is much lower. Because apartments are more concentrated and present less risk to the property manager, rents and security deposits for most apartments are far cheaper than houses, on average. For all intents and purposes, apartments function almost identical to houses in that there are no established rules and you are free to do what you wish the majority of the time. It is a vast improvement over dorm life and a hell of a lot better than living with mom and dad.
Like houses though, there are some pitfalls to apartment living. Large apartment complexes almost always have somebody on-site 24 hours a day to enforce certain rules. This is no big deal if you are a low key person with low key friends, but it can certainly be a pain in the ass if you choose to engage in activities that are a little less wholesome. Also, you will have many neighbors in any apartment setting, and in less you are just a real prick, you will have to be somewhat courteous of these neighbors. This situation can also be a positive thing; apartment complexes put large numbers of people in relatively small spaces, which is an excellent way to meet people. This close proximity to your neighbors can also be a downside to apartment living if you happen to get stuck next to the struggling band, the techno fanatic, the aspiring DJ, the heavy walker, the loud girl, or any number of irritating potential apartment dwellers.
What some apartments lack in privacy, they make up for in amenities. Apartments almost always have things like dishwashers and central A/C, as well as laundry that is either free or a hell of a lot cheaper than any laundromat while saving you the trouble of dragging your filthy laundry across town. Many larger complexes have things like pools and small gyms, and all of them include water and garbage at no extra charge.
A Condo
See Apartment, but also consider that while there might be 100 condos in the same complex, each one is independently owned and many aren’t rental units, they are simply people’s homes. This can lead to a colorful mix of tenants that is part student, part low-income family, part single professional, part retired couple, and everything in between. This clash of different groups can often be taxing and personally time-consuming. The first apartment I ever lived in was next door to a condo complex that was visited by the police at least 4 nights a week. For this reason, consider the location of the condo complex (near campus, low income area of town, etc.) before you commit to living there as this might be the most important determinant of whether or not you will enjoy your stay.
Your Parent’s House
Although I would certainly advise against this option, it is still an option, and for a select few people, a damn fine one. Personally, I see living independently during college as something that is equally as important as the classes you take and the degree you get. Everyone needs to learn some responsibility and life management skills while they are still in college and relatively protected from the outside world. As far as I’m concerned, there is not better way to do this than to live on your own.
However, I do understand that the choice to live at home isn’t always a voluntary one. Living expenses are extremely high when considered on top of tuition, books, gas, food, and all of the other things that take our money. Living at home is by far the most economical choice of the 4 that were discussed here, and is certainly a welcome option for those that lack the necessary resources to move out. That being said, I would highly recommend that even though this is a possibility, that you avoid it if at all possible. Once you get out of high school and into college, you are exposed to an entirely different world where you are actually given the opportunity to manage your own life and not adhere to some nonsensical set of rules designed to keep you in line and maintaining the status quo. This new found liberation requires a new style of existence, namely, living on your own and making your own decisions. No matter how positive your relationship with your parents might be, it will undoubtedly be put under pressure once you make this fundamental change in learning establishments. For this reason, I would suggest that you exhaust whatever options necessary to move out, even if for but a short time, say one year of college maybe.
All preaching aside, living with the folks is a pretty sweet deal on the surface. You have literally no costs aside from your own personal necessities, you will more than likely have dinner made for you each night, theres a good chance you won’t always have to do your own laundry, and your parents will probably be a lot cooler than they were when you were in high school simply because they would begin to see you as slightly more mature and whatnot. Honestly though, I would still suggest getting away, it is something that everyone must accomplish at some point, and there is no better time to do it than college.